I was watching NHK one quiet morning when a news segment caught my attention. It reported that ÈÕ±¾¤Ç¤Ï¶à¤¯¤ÎÄÐÐÔ¤¬×ÔÕ¬¥È¥¤¥ì¤Ç×ù¤Ã¤ÆÓäò×㤹¤½¤¦¤Ç¤¹ (Nihon dewa ¨ku no dansei ga jitaku toire de suwatte y¨ o tasu s¨ desu, in Japan, many men sit down to relieve themselves in their bathrooms at home). The term Óäò×㤹 (y¨ o tasu) is a polite way of saying ¡°go to the toilet,¡± and the clip suggested ÐlÉú (eisei, hygiene) as the reason they were being encouraged to do so.
I looked around my own mixed-nationality household. ¤¦¤Á¤ÎÄÐÐÔ¤¿¤Á¤Ï¤ß¤ó¤ÊÁ¢¤Ã¤Æ¤·¤Æ¤¤¤ë¤è¤¦¤À (Uchi no dansei-tachi wa minna tatte shite-iru y¨ da, In my home, all the men seem to stand when they use the bathroom). I suddenly wondered: Is the decision to ×ù¤Ã¤Æ (suwatte, sit) or Á¢¤Ã¤Æ (tatte, stand) personal or cultural?
I took to social media to ask what others thought, posting a question: ÈÕ±¾¤Î¼ÒÍ¥¤Ç¤ÏÄÐ×Ó¤Ë×ù¤Ã¤ÆÓäò×㤹¤è¤¦¤ËÑԤäƤ¤¤ë¤È¤«£¡¤ß¤Ê¤µ¤ó¤Î¼ÒÍ¥¤Ç¤Ï¤É¤¦¤Ê¤Ã¤Æ¤Þ¤¹¤«£¿ (Nihon no katei dewa danshi ni suwatte-y¨ o tasu y¨ni itte-iru toka! Mina-san no katei dewa d¨ nattemasu ka?, I heard that in Japanese households, boys are told to sit when they relieve themselves! How is it in your home?).
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